I will center consent in this practice. As a practitioner, consent is as much of a priority as it is in my personal life. I will only go as deep as you allow me physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. The majority of touch work we may encounter will be one sided and focused on the gift of receiving. Touch does NOT happen without your explicit consent. 

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I will respect you. This work is deeply personal. It has to be. In order to be open, a mutual level of respect must be established. Respect is shown by being considerate of each other’s time, ideas, bodies, vulnerability, and privacy. When we work together, your private matters will not be discussed without your consent. It can sometimes be helpful for me to discuss specific concerns with other sexological professionals, but I will ask permission and keep it anonymous. 

 

I will practice honesty and integrity. Using my divine intuition, I will stand on the truth as I see it while acknowledging your truths as well. It will always come from a place of kindness and integrity. Depending on what is needed, the execution of honesty may be gentle, firm, or something in between. 
 

I will be brave. I am here to be an agent for healing and growth. That can be scary and disorienting, exhilarating and liberating, and challenging. It can look like a lot of things. While no space can exist without risk, my goal is to do no harm while providing a refuge for expansion.
 

I will take accountability for my mistakes and shortcomings. If harm is done, I will take accountability for the wrongdoing and encourage you to use your voice. Communication is an integral part of this work, and I will give my best effort to be clear and concise. If questions arise, feel free to ask and when availability is established, I will happily address your concerns in the confines of our safe container. 

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I am also in alignment with the ethical code presented to me by mentor, Amina Peterson of Atlanta Institute of Tantra.

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Love is not sterile. The designation "client" shall apply only in a therapeutic situation comprised of me and the client(s). Any other context, I will refer to you however you are most comfortable, either simply as a friend, lover, or member of the community.​

 

Love is communicative. I will discuss any objectives and parameters of the therapeutic relationship with the client so that the client may make informed decisions.

 

​Love is not ownership. The therapeutic relationship I foster with my client is temporary, always within the context of the therapeutic and driven by the spiritual, physical and emotional welfare of the client. This relationship can end if it is terminated by mutual agreement or if the client voluntarily terminates the therapy.

 

​Love is egoless. I will always recognize the boundaries and limitations of my competence. I will not attempt to use methods outside the range of my knowledge, training and experience. If I think that the client will benefit from any additional methods, I will communicate this to the client and refer out accordingly. 

 

​Love is harmless. I may use physical touch if we decide that touch based somatic approach to healing is desirable and appropriate. If I do so, I will always touch consciously and with the attitude to do no harm with concern for the client's growth; for the safety of both/all parties; and to honor the agreed boundaries established. I will co-create clear agreements with my client before engaging in any form of bodywork.

 

​Love is not loud. I will respect, defend, and preserve the privacy of all information gained from my client. I will preserve the anonymity of clients when using information for the purposes of teaching, research, and supervision. The identity of a client, and all information received from or about them in the therapeutic situation shall not be communicated outside the healing space without the client's written permission, except under the following conditions. Information about the client may be disclosed only:

     a) when there is a clear and imminent danger to individuals or society, and then only to appropriate professional colleagues or public authorities.

     b) for the purpose of professional consultation with appropriate professional colleagues, if the identities of individuals are disguised to protect confidentiality.

     c) for presentation of information to professional or lay groups, if the identities of the individuals are disguised to protect confidentiality. 

 

​Love is safe. I hold and take full responsibility for adequate precautionary measures against communicable diseases and infections. It is also my responsibility to determine that the client has taken similar precautions. I acknowledge the importance of physical, in addition to emotional, mental, spiritual, and sexual well-being. To protect the health of both myself and my client, risk-reduction steps are taken to minimize any harm, in active collaboration with my client. Any break in the skin (abrasions, infection, rash, cut, etc) will require rescheduling of any touch sessions, for both my own and my client's protection. Any sessions and all group classes will always include education about hygiene protocol, with sufficient facilities/supplies provided to clients to maintain appropriate hygiene.

 

​Love is caring. I will recognize any personal issues I may have that could possibly affect my work and take appropriate measures to protect and serve my clients by taking breaks from contact with clients. Spiritual, emotional and physical ailments must be resolved before resuming touching or coaching and clients will be referred to other healers if I am incapacitated in anyway due to personal issues. ​

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Love is consensual. I recognize the importance of consent and choice in all interactions with individuals and groups. Clients will NEVER be required or coerced to participate in any activity, event or exercise. I will inform and educate my clients about consent and choice throughout our relationship and actively create learning environments where clients are empowered to exercise those skills.

 

​Love is not greedy. I recognize the relationship between healer and the healing as one of privilege and will never seek a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for healing work offered. I understand the inherent inequality of power we hold relative to clients in our role of practitioner/teacher and agree not to use this power for the sexual, emotional, financial, or spiritual exploitation of clients.

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Love is not lust. I will not seek to fulfill my erotic appetites with my client. In the therapeutic space, erotic touch is unidirectional, healer to client. If clients wish to learn and practice interpersonal erotic skills, I request they bring their partners or invite them to share and learn with a surrogate lover. If I fulfill the role of surrogate, I am always conscious that, and make clients conscious that, sessions will neither fulfill any desire for romantic sexual relationship outside of the professional setting.

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